昨天来了个老外，进到办公室，前台小姐左看右看，大家都在打游戏，只有自己比较清闲，面带微笑的：

　　前台小姐：“Hello.”

　　老外：“Hi.”

　　前台小姐：“You have what thing？”

　　老外：“Can you speak english？”

　　前台小姐：“If I not speak english, I am speaking what？”

　　老外：“Can anybody else speak english？”

　　前台小姐：“You yourself look. All people are playing, no people have time, you can wait, you wait, you not wait, you go！”

　　老外：“Good heavens. Anybody here can speak English？”

　　前台小姐：“Shout what shout, quiet a little, you on earth have what thing？”

　　老外：“I want to speak to your head.”

　　前台小姐：“Head not zai. You tomorrow come！”

前两天去面试了一次，是有始以来所有面试中（虽然也没面过几次）给我印象最深的一次。面我的是一个小小瘦瘦的韩国男人，大概三十岁左右（从言谈中推测），虽然也是黄皮肤，黑头发，黑眼睛，但一看就知道是个韩国人，就是跟中国男人怎么看怎么不一样，跟韩剧里的没什么两样，他会中文（不多），英语（没我发音标准），当然还会韩语（精通）。跟他一个小时的交流用的是我们都懂的又不是彼此母语的英语，说到最后有些不会用英语说的我就直接跟他说中文了，有些中文他不懂的就又用英文解释，交流还算顺利愉快。这些都不是我要说的重点。我想说的是外国人真的比大部分中国人有修养有素质，至少比面过我的那些中国人强好多。首先他真的很客气，亲自给我倒水，一点没有老板的架子，不会因为我是应届生没工作经验而表现出一丝的不屑，其次他的谈话很真诚，不会问些错里错卡的问题让我不知所措，就像一般的聊天一样，让我很放松，在问到薪资问题时，他问我满不满意，还说不喜欢put sth in the heart 不满意就说出来，让我实在不好意思说不满意（其实也挺满意的）。然后就是带我去看看办公室和设计室及工厂和宿舍（要住那的，就是这点不好）。去宿舍的路上，他问我can I smoke? 习惯了周围人的随便（说的难听点就是没素质），真是一个不小的触动，有点反应不过来，在愣了几秒钟后马上点头说of course ，最后道别时我跟他说谢谢，他的回答是这样的it’s my pleasure. Thank you for coming here to have the interview. 主动跟我握手再见。整个面试就在这种很轻松的氛围里结束了，让人带着希望回去，心情和以前的面试完全不一样，中国的人面试总是让人带了一包气和失望回家，而且没戏的话会从很不客气的语言中感受出来。还有就是我在问到交几金的问题时，他自己也不清楚，说待会儿会叫人事部的打电话告诉我，之后我就忘了，到家没多久，人事部的就打电话来跟我解释了。这个面试就让我感觉他们把面试的人是当回事的，不管通没通过，都给我留下了不错的印象。什么时候中国人的面试也能让人感觉良好呢。

I am really confused and cannot understand so-called love. More than one times and more than one persons ,I mean girls ,have presented me their crazes  with their unusual behavior which make me feel unbelievable and unimaginable. Though how unwilling I am to admit  ,all of them are true and tangibly exist. A cautious girl ,my middle school classmate , told me a shocking secret about her love with her friend a few days ago . Perhaps someone else may consider it nothing serious , but for me it is serious enough. Another girl ,more careful and conservative , also my middle school classmate gave me an even more startled news that she had a bf for two years and had been to his hometown several times. Actually it is no uncommon ,but the boy comes from a “countryside province” and is just an e-friend. Moreover, this girl maybe is the last person I think she will have a bf ,let alone an e-friend.  She should have do such kind of affairs three years unseen. I can hardly accept. Now after I think more, it is me who is the most conservative and outdated person mentally. I am the one who fuss about too many things. However, I really can not figure out what on earth love is.